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How I Help

Grief doesn't only belong
to one person in the room.

Anyone moving through loss is welcome here — any kind of loss, any timeline, any pace.

Below are three of the people I most often sit with. Choose the door that feels closest. And if you don't see yourself yet, write anyway. There is room.

Soft peonies in muted light
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For parents

When you've lost a child

Quiet, unhurried support for parents — at any age, by any cause, at any point on the long road. From someone who has walked this ground.

"I won't tell you it gets easier. I will tell you that you don't have to carry it alone."

A quiet path through soft greenery
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For siblings

The grief that often goes unseen

A place where your loss is centered, not the footnote. Room for everything you carry alongside everyone else's grief.

"Your grief is not smaller because someone else's was louder."

An open journal and a cup on a quiet table
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For family & friends

Standing alongside someone you love

Support for the helpers — your own grief, plus practical guidance on how to keep showing up gently for the long middle.

"Grief doesn't only belong to one person in the room."

If you're in crisis, please call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) — gentle, confidential support, any hour.

When you're ready

I'm here.
Whenever ready means.

A note is enough to begin. There's no right thing to say, and no timeline you owe me or yourself.